It shocks me all the time at how dumb some ppl can be. I just saw a news item about how a group of teens attacked and beat up a 14 yr old girl. They video taped it....and then POSTED it on Facebook! Are you kidding me? Do they realise that the police can and will identify them and have them charged now? It's never ending how stupid ppl are. I certainly don't condone beating someone up, no matter how violent my future rants become lol, but if you're inclined to do this, or any other crime, can you do me a favour please? Can you NOT video it!!! First, it's an insanely stupid thing to do, secondly, you'll not be able to resist posting it and showing off for your friends, thirdly, the police will identify and charge you. You're an idiot if you need to record your crimes. Is your memory that bad that you can't remember kicking the shit out of someone? Or doing a drive by shooting? When I was a kid, a teen, I was an idiot, we all were, even if you think YOU weren't, trust me, you WERE. As stupid as I was tho, it never would have occurred to me to record any of my bad deeds. Neither would it have occurred to any of my friends. The technology was there, I'm not that old lol I have told my kids not to record anything incriminating that they do, and they don't. I'm not an idiot anymore and I know that my kids are gonna fuck up and do stupid things that I NEVER wanna know about, but at least they aren't so dumb as to publish for the world to see, how dumb they really are.
Thursday, 7 April 2011
I need help lol
As I write this I'm wondering if I missed something in the tutorial on how to use your blog. I can't get the background to look like my first post. If I hit the backspace key all my settings vanish! I can't keep the font or size the same if I change the colour on the text, and I lose all my settings if I try to change the background. It's so frustrating! I don't know if it's me or the computer or the blog itself might have some bugs. If anyone reads this and has any helpful tips or suggestions I would really appreciate a comment. <3
So this is disgusting...
So I read this article about how an 11yr old girl was gang raped by 18 men. I almost puked from that alone. Here's the unbelievable part: there are SOME in her community who believe she was asking for it! Are you serious?? An 11 yr old isn't legally able to make ANY decisions, no matter what she wears or says, it's still ILLEGAL for fuck's sake!!! This is not an issue, these men were charged and will prolly be found guilty, there is NO sympathy for them, ever. How can ANYONE sit there and justify the gang rape of an 11 yr old girl?!?! I couldn't believe it when I read it on CNN. It's because the 14-27 yr olds who did this were black and now the black community is looking to spin this so it's HER fault. Are you kidding me!?!?! Get over yourselves, they raped and forever ruined this poor girls life. They did it, no question. It wasn't because she was luring them, it wasn't because she was dressed too sexy...it was because you're animals that can't control yourselves! This is making me physically sick. I hope she has a stronger enough support system to get through this. All you ppl who are claiming she 'wanted it' or she was' asking for it' can rot in a burning hell. SHE'S 11!!!! No matter what she wore, or how much makeup she did/didn't have on doesn't excuse ANYONE!!! Stop making the victim the aggressor! Rape is rape and NO woman/ girl ever asks for it. Grow up and shut up all of you supporting the rapists. I hope your names are published and you receive the wrath you deserve. What if it was YOUR daughter, sister, mother? What if the 11 yr girl was black? What would you say then? There is NO defense for the perpetrators of this horrendous crime, there needs to be justice, and if the courts don't hand it down, I'm hoping the ppl of this community will.
Wednesday, 6 April 2011
Hello World!
Hi there! My name is Nyssa and I'm 36 years old. I have 2 teenagers, a son who's 17, and a daughter who's 16. Ashley, my daughter, lives with her dad and stays with me on weekends, and my son, Dustin, lives with his boyfriend in Toronto.
My boyfriend, James, lives in England and we want him to move here, but it's expensive and his mother isn't well. He came to visit me last November, he's also one of my best friend's best friends. We're planning a trip to see him this year, I'm hoping my tax return is a nice one!
I'd say I'm pretty liberal, but I find that sometimes I have conservative thoughts (yikes!) I also think the NDP have great ideas.
I like to think I'm pretty open minded, but recently I've realised that that's not always true. I have some pretty strong opinions and will share them here, for better or worse.
I live with my best friend Scott who's 23. It's difficult sometimes cuz of the age difference. I find that when we argue it's based on that difference. We just see things differently and lock horns, so to speak. Mostly we are great friends and have good laughs and good times. He's my rock and I would do anything for him. So when I bitch about him on here, always remember that love is underneath it. lol
Today there was a little tension. I wanted to spend the day cleaning, so I started with the kitchen. Scott cleaned the bathtub, after a month of grossness. As I'm huffing and puffing, scrubbing the caked on dirt on the counters and cupboards, he tells me he's done....he cleaned the bathroom. REALLY? I did all the dishes and scrubbed everything, and he tells me he's done. He said I didn't ask him to do anything else....I ask myself, why do I have to ask him to clean his own mess? Isn't he an adult too? No one asks me, but I know it has to be done, so I do it.
At this point I should mention that I had back surgery in Jan and have to use a walker to get around. I also have MS so my legs go weak and then just stop working. Anyway, we got over it quickly and he will be more considerate and clean up his own messes.
Communication is key when dealing with relationships. Friends, spouses, children, all it takes is a talk. The mistake I find ppl make is that they want to talk about what's wrong right away when everyone's still angry and emotional. I find that the best time is after it's all over, and everyone is cooled off, you sit down and bring up the topic, don't interrupt and work it out. We all have solutions in our head that we feel will make life better, but we just stew on it, never TALK about it.
This is just my first blog post, I'm hoping I've let you know a little about me, there will be more later. I will be writing this like a journal, my thoughts, hopes, fears all of it.
I can't wait to start meeting ppl on here and getting some feedback! :)
There's a lot going on in this world, and even more going on in my head. Buckle up, it's gonna be a bumpy ride!
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