Facebook pictures & the self esteem of young women

I'm so sick of seeing all these young women who post pics of themselves deep throating a beer bottle or some other such stupidity. It makes me think that all they're trying to do is a) show off, b) want sexual attention from men they've never met, and c) prove how open they are. Well all it proves is that in reality you have a very low opinion of yourself and need strangers to tell you how sexy you are over the internet. I find it sad and not just a little bit pathetic. The women, and I want to stress WOMEN, not little teenagers who are barely legal, who have high self esteem, loving families and romantic relationships, don't have those pics up. The reason? They have nothing to prove! Unfortunately the young women of today's generation think that the only way to meet someone is online, and the only way to get that 'special' someone is to be hotter than the last girl. I have news for you: he's NOT special! He wants to fuck you, he doesn't really care if you have a bit of chub or wtvr, he wants to make sure he can do you missionary style and not have to put a bag over your face. Depending on the guy, he prolly doesn't even care what your face looks like, just your tits. Which you all so graciously show off, so the guys can grocery shop through their friends lists and choose which slut to do next. The fact that younger and younger girls are falling victim to this mentality only makes it worse. Do they know that if they are under 18 and post a provocative pic they can be charged with child pornography? They would be listed as sex offenders for years and possibly the rest of their lives. All for a pic that makes guys want to fuck you? Really? Is it worth it? I don't think it is. I wish that someone would tell these girls/wannabe women that this is not how you want society to perceive you. When you 'meet' someone, it's in PERSON, not in a chat room or on facebook. Sex is not something you write in a private message and masturbate to. A relationship usually involves ppl having physical contact. There are so many females on facebook that only want to show off their assets, and trust me, most of them don't have any to show off, just sayin', or have 'relationships' from the 'safety' of their laptops. Personal, human contact is so lacking in this age of instant gratification. No one even seems to notice or mind that all these young women and girls are growing up confusing sexy with slutty. I understand that it is widely acceptable that sex is now something you do on the first date/meeting. I understand. Really I do. What I don't understand is why. When did sex turn into love and vice versa? So many ppl out there are gonna be so fucked up by this phenomena and no one will be there to help them because they're all from the same generation. These are the ppl that are supposed to run everything? Really? It's sad and pathetic. How did we let this happen? Being online gives ppl power because it's truly anonymous. Even with your name up there and all your info, no one's reading it, and if they are, beware. Ppl get brave when they're sitting at home behind a monitor. That monitor won't protect you. It won't be there if you get stalked by the one 'friend' you have on facebook who only wants to hurt you and now can, because HE actually read your info. The young ppl are so desperate not to 'lose' touch with ANYONE that they put their personal phone numbers on their public profiles. Well, where are all your hundreds of 'friends' when you're home is being broken into and you're being assaulted? They'll be there to comment when you're out of the hospital, or you can read them from the other side, as so often happens the victim dies. If you don't know someone personally don't add them. Ahhhh, but here's the rub: how can you globalize your world and mind if you only add those you know? How do you go about meeting ppl from other cultures and learn from them? Simple; make a fake profile if you only want the attention of strangers. Make up a name, make it sexy, who cares, if it's not your real info? Then you get the 'high' of being 'popular' and 'wanted' on an online forum, but you don't have creeps who only want to know where you live, knowing where you live. Understand? Please, don't ever be 'that' girl. The one who takes self pics from angles, who shows off her cleavage and makes sexual innuendos on all her comments and statuses. I really feel sorry for 'that' girl. I hope I live long enough to see what happens to these women when they ACTUALLY mature. I hope it's not just a string of reports of yet another young woman found in the ditch after one of her facebook 'friends' decided to pay her her a visit.